Without routines, you will not achieve lasting change.
Think for a moment about the people you know who never seem to find success. Do they get excited about new goals only to give up after a few weeks? In my experience, people who never learn consistency spend their lives feeling frustrated, unsatisfied, and stuck. You do not need to become one of those people.
All you need to do is the same thing, every day, for the rest of your life.
People who never learn consistency spend their lives feeling stuck.
If I may be vulnerable with you for a moment, standing still is probably my greatest fear.
Stagnation terrifies me because, in my weakest, most passive state, I don’t move forward. I never would have gone to college if my parents hadn’t pushed me. I couldn’t have married anyone less stubborn than my husband because no other man would have waited so long. For me, the status quo holds a lot of allure. I love routines because they save me from myself.
For me, the status quo holds a lot of allure.
A good routine guarantees eventual progress. A few minutes of practice every day at almost any skill will yield results over a lifetime. Routines help me to feel secure because I don’t need to worry about regressing. As long I persevere, I will continue to improve.
Now, please understand that routines do not guarantee perfection. They only ensure progress. As a recovering perfectionist, I know that my desire for perfection often destroys any chance at self-improvement because I don’t begin. Fear of failure keeps me from trying at all. When I do finally get started, I tend to waste all of my energy perfecting the first step and never reach the end.
Instead of attempting perfection, I want to be content with forward motion.
Right now, I’d like to move closer to Christ. It’s been a while since I maintained a solid routine of prayer and Bible study, and I’m afraid of missing out on Jesus. Maybe it sounds simplistic, but I’ve seen how graciously God responds when I extend a little effort. Sometimes I think Christians over-spiritualize their relationships with God. As with any human friendship, consistent communication builds stronger bonds.
You already know the routines that will propel you toward your goal. You also recognize when you need to switch things up so you don’t go completely crazy. I’m praying this post gives you the encouragement you need to keep going. Maybe you don’t see the progress right now, but sticking with something almost always works.
Routines tend to be boring. They’re hardly ever fun, entertaining, or exciting. They don’t always feel like progress in the moment, and they require a lot of dogged determination and tedious repetition. They’re also the only way to achieve lasting change.
Don’t give up.
Love,
The Reluctant Bride
The Reluctant Bride 
Beautiful photos. I am NOT a good routines person but I am getting better at it little by little. Thanks for this confirmation that I am making progress.
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Thank you!! I love my wedding photos so much, and my blog gives me an excuse to share them. 😊 So glad you feel encouraged because making progress “little by little” is all that any of us can do!! ❤️
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